One Crappy Essay
By Mimi Knight
Anyone who's raised a boy or who grew up with brothers can
relate to the car trip I endured the other day. Once in his life
every red-blooded, American boy discovers a word which, from the
first time he hears it, completely enchants him. For my five
brothers it was the word "booger". For my son, Hewson, it's "turd".
In the late 1960s there was nothing funnier to my brothers than
taking any
sentence (song title, slogan, whatever I just said) and slipping
"booger" in place of another word. I can still hear them
crooning, "I'm looking over a four pound booger"
then collapsing in laughter in the backseat where I was trapped
with them for our annual
endurance trip from Kansas City to New Orleans and back. The
more they used their word, the harder they laughed. The harder
they laughed, the madder I got. I caught a glimpse of my parents
once in the rear view mirror as they pretended to scold my
brothers while snickering to each other and felt completely
betrayed.
Now I'm the mom of four kids including one red blooded 8 year
old boy and one far too serious 11 year old sister. As much as
I've tried to reason with her and explain, "If
you don't let him get to you, he'll get bored and stop saying
it," she doesn't listen any
more than I did.
Last Thursday the three of us piled into the car and set out in
search of a new mini
van. It wasn't Kansas City to New Orleans but for my daughter,
Molly, it might as well have been as Hewson set about using his
newfound word with a gusto that would've made his uncles proud.
He began with highway sign; signs like Turds May Ice in Cold
Weather, Turd Limit 70, Caution; Falling Turds
and my own personal favorite, Highway
Workers, Give Them a Turd.
Molly's pleas o "MAAA- MAAA, make him stop!" started a tug of
war inside of
me. On one hand, I remember too well the booger days of the
1960s. On the other, when I
looked from my new vantage point in the rearview mirror and saw
the impish look on Hewson's freckled face as he sang out,
Unlawful to Turd and Authorized Turds Only, I
felt a laugh boiling up inside of me. I thought about my
brothers singing, "She's Got a
Booger to Ride", took a deep breath and told Hewson, "All right,
Buddy, enough turd talk for a while. Find something else to do."
He did for a few miles then we hit a populated area and the
billboards began. A
national motel chain offered Free Continental Turds. An
airline invited customers to
Come Turd with Us.
I disguised a chuckle as a cough.
Molly turned red in the face "Mom, I'm going to clobber him if
he doesn't shut
up!"
We passed a truck warning, Caution Wide Turds.
Another truck offering, Quality Refrigerated Turds\ A
good one!
"Mom, aren't you going to say anything?"
I swallowed repeatedly, made myself think of something sad, and
tried changing
the subject, "What 'cha reading there, Sis?"
She cut her brother a look and held up the book in her lap.
"It's for school. A collection of poems by Edgar Allan Poe."
"Oh", Hewson retorted "Turdy Allan Poe. I've heard of him," then
broke into a rousing rendition of "Hail to the Turd". (Better
than "Turd to the Chief I thought. But
didn't say it.)
We passed through a No Turd Zone and a car with an I
Brake for Turds bumper
sticker. That's when Molly walloped Hewson. But, as any brother
can tell you, laughter is
stronger than Novocain for deadening the sting of a sister's
slug. He didn't miss a beat, Caution... Steep Turds Ahead.
She punched him again. I tried to referee from the front
seat.
"Molly, if you'll stop pounding your brother I'm sure he'll stop
talking turd for a
while. Right, Buddy?" Nobody heard me.
"Yield to Oncoming Turds."
POUND!
"Center Lane for Turds Only."
POUND!
"This Turd Stops at all Railroad Crossings."
DOUBLE POUND!
I threatened to "Pull this car over and you'll both be sorry." I
was talking to myself. That's when I saw it, dearly written on
the passenger side mirror. Turds in
Mirror are Closer Than They Appear.
No, I can't. I owe it to Molly, to sisters everywhere
to take her side on this. I willed myself to remember how badly
I'd wanted to open the
back door of our old Impala and kick my brothers out onto the
highway.
The fray in the back seat continued as we turned off the
interstate and into a residential neighborhood, Slow Turds at
Play.
"I'm gonna kill him, Mom. I MEAN it)"
Quiet! Turd Zone.
"All right, I warned him."
Fines higher in turd area.
"Mom, you're just gonna' let him say it?"
No more signs but Hewson was on a roll, "A turd in the hand is
worth two in the
bush".
"Yeah" I thought. "The early turd gets the worm." I tried my
hardest to conjure up a picture of my brothers after we got home
from New Orleans and they recruited a few
neighborhood boys in singing, The booger, my friend, is blowing
in the wind."
"Got turds?' Hewson asked.
"The squeaky turd gets the grease," I thought.
That was last week. Molly hasn't killed her brother yet and we
still haven't found
a new mini van. We're setting out to shop some more today.
Things aren't looking too
good though. I can hear Hewson in his room getting ready
singing, "Who let the turds
out! Who? Who? Who?"